Diocese of Portsmouth

    Toddler group expands to fill hall

    Children and Young People
    10 Oct. 2017

    THEY launched a toddler group with a handful of volunteers a year ago. Now their church hall is packed every week.

    Tots and Toddlers at St Alban’s Church, Copnor, attracts up to 40 families each Monday morning. Parents, carers, toddlers and babies squeeze into the church hall for fun, friendship, play and songs – all for free.

    Fresh coffee and croissants are available from a café table strewn with fairy lights. Toddlers play with wooden trains, toy cars and building bricks, push around walking toys, and dive in and out of play tents. And there is a chance to do some simple colouring or gluing at a craft table.

    After a quick clear-up of the toys, the families move into a back room so children can sip juice and eat from snackpots. Then it’s back into the main hall so they can sing nursery rhymes together.

    Lisa Hartley, who brings Tommy, aged 3, and Toriana, who is just 1, said: “It’s my favourite of all the groups I go to. The people that run it are lovely and everyone is really friendly. I came by myself just after it started, and then brought a couple of friends.

    “There are lots of different toys to play with, and Tommy is safe to play by himself if I need to do something with Toriana. There’s social interaction for the children, and also the adults.”

    And Kate Barrett, who brings her daughter Gabrielle and nephew Maxwell, both aged 1, said: “There aren’t many groups like this for free, and we really enjoy it. There’s a lot of toys they can play with, and they especially enjoy the things they don’t have at home.”

    Tots and Toddlers at St Alban's Church, Copnor

    The group was launched by a team from both St Alban’s Church and Harbour Church in Portsmouth. As it has developed, some of the regular mums joined the team running the group.

    In the summer term, they offered a 10-week parenting course, immediately after Tots and Toddlers each week. It included a crèche, so the 15 mums could focus on what was being said and pick up tips to help them at home. This term, a similar course will run in the evenings.

    Laura Morgan, who brings her two-year-old Frank, said: “There is a lot of support from other mums, especially if you are a new mum. People can help you through any issues because they’ve all had children at different stages.”

    And Liz Wood, who leads the group, said: “When we got involved with St Alban’s it was clear they were already building relationships with families in the local area and so we wanted to build on that by providing a midweek group for that demographic.

    “When we started the group we were amazed that 25 people turned up in the first week. Now we’ve set a limit on 40 adults so that we’re not too crowded, but there’s plenty of other people to chat to and get to know."

    “We were grateful to get some external funding so we could buy lots of toys and make the group free. And we discovered that other groups in the city had closed down because of lack of funding.

    “We want to build up relationships with people, so we provide good quality refreshments, we offered the parenting course, and we do invite families to church events too. Over the first year, we’ve now been in contact with 240 different families.

    “Our heart is to provide a safe and encouraging place for parents, to help them feel loved and supported.”